Why men don't like fat women
Do you like fat women? Well, if you do, you have a lot of choice. There seems to be a plethora of chunky broads out there, yet not many men want to shack up with them, that’s for sure. I know one guy that likes his women plump and has multiple girlfriends, each of which seem to know about the other, but seem not to care. Maybe they think they can’t get any other man because of their size? So, where does this bias come from?
It all goes back to prehistoric days. When men hunted dinosaurs, they would hunt all day and drag home a T-Rex leg or two for dinner. Seeing that he worked so hard, women would order a salad instead so that the man could enjoy all the meat. This was very attractive to the man because he wanted all the meat or himself anyway (we are pretty selfish). So, those thin women that just ate salads were the ones that got picked as mates and furthered the trend of small chicks.
Women also had to work in the fields and pick berries and milk the brontosaurus, so they tended to stay thin anyway. Men would obviously be attracted to women who were good workers and could care for the family and pull a plow and help with carrying firewood on their backs. So, for quite a while, there just weren’t many fat chicks.
Then during Roman times, people had way too much time on their hands, and so began to eat 10 to 12 meals a day with snacks in between. This was probably the first time that people conspicuously consumed as a society, and you know the rest. When the ladies got fat, Rome began to decline and eventually was ruined. So, many people still have that stigma of fat chicks causing the downfall of the empire in their heads to overcome.
Fast forward to modern times and we are in a similar situation. After the industrial revolution, people began to have too much free time again. And now, with internet porn, people never have to leave the house. So, as a society people are just getting fat again. That doesn’t mean we can overcome our natural urges however. Of course there will always be guys with big boned fetishes who will love any chunky gal they see, but for most guys, thin is still in.
What it really comes down to is that guys like young women. Guys like to find in a mate someone that looks as young and innocent as possible without going to jail. Just look at all the models today. Most are very thin teenagers, have big heads in proportion to their bodies, and need their diapers changed every four hours, very much like children. People are just naturally attracted to child like images.
Look at when someone brings a baby into a room. Everyone stops and stares and makes strange “Ohh, aah” noises. Even children get this kind of special treatment. At parties or social events, an inordiante amount of attention is always focused on the children. Look at cartoons as well. The popular ones almost invariably have characters with heads that are too big for their bodies (Simpsons anyone?) and act childish in manner. People just love children, and you don’t see many fat ones. If you notice, even with all the media hype about fat children, most are still a lot thinner than most adults.
So, the take away here is simple. If you want to be attractive to most men, you need to be thin. It also wouldn’t hurt to get plastic surgery to have your head enlarged.